You’re not too busy—you’re just prioritizing status meetings over the people doing the work. This post unpacks the leadership lie of “no time” and challenges you to stop ghosting your team in the name of productivity theater.
Feeling like a fraud? You're not broken—you’re in a system that punishes not knowing. Impostor syndrome isn’t a flaw, it’s a signal. Real leadership creates safety, not shame. You’re not the problem. The culture is.
No one wakes up knowing how to debug a legacy codebase held together by hope and half-written tests. You learn by breaking things, fixing them, and doing it again. You don’t need to know everything. You need to be fearless enough to figure it out.
Lead. Don’t Ctrl.
Six rounds. A ten-hour take-home. A whiteboard deathmatch judged by ego. This isn’t a hiring process—it’s hazing. And the best candidates? They’re walking away before you even see them. If your interview burns people out before they join—you’re the problem.
Lead. Don’t Ctrl.
