⏰ You’re Not Too Busy—You’re Just Bad at Prioritizing People
Let’s not pretend you don’t have time.
You had time for three back-to-back alignment meetings.
You had time to drop 17 comments in a Jira ticket about “acceptance criteria.”
You had time to approve a conference talk… that you’ll end up canceling for “fire drills.”
But you didn’t have time for your team.
You’re not too busy.
You’re just prioritizing everything except the humans you’re supposed to be leading.
🧠 “I’m Slammed” Is Not a Personality
Somewhere along the way, being buried became a badge of honor.
If your calendar isn’t stacked edge-to-edge, are you even important?
But here’s the truth: when a leader constantly says they’re too busy for their team…
- They’re not busy.
- They’re disorganized.
- Or worse: they’re choosing the wrong things on purpose.
Because prioritizing people is quiet. It’s not flashy. It doesn’t look “urgent” on a Kanban board.
So it’s the first thing to get sacrificed when the pressure’s on.
👀 Your Team Notices
That 1:1 you rescheduled three times? Yeah, they noticed.
That Slack message you left on read? They noticed.
That quick “Sorry, gotta run” when someone started sharing a concern? Oh, they definitely noticed.
And guess what?
When you don’t make time for people, they stop coming to you.
And that’s not “autonomy.”
That’s isolation.
🙄 But Wait, You’re “Protecting Their Time,” Right?
Cute. You skipped check-ins because you “didn’t want to interrupt their flow.”
You didn’t ask about burnout because “they seem fine.”
Let me translate that for you:
You didn’t make time because you didn’t value the time.
Protecting your team’s time doesn’t mean ignoring them.
It means making damn sure they have what they need—and they know you’ve got their back when they don’t.
🎯 What Real Prioritization Looks Like
Look, we’re all juggling flaming chainsaws out here.
But leaders who actually lead know how to:
- Block off sacred time for 1:1s—and actually show up.
- Check in without micromanaging.
- Make people feel seen, not just “managed.”
- Celebrate wins. Catch early warning signs.
- Drop what they’re doing when their team is in the fire.
That’s the job. That’s the leadership.
Not your deck. Not your roadmap grooming. Not your weekly update to the SVP of whatever.
💥 Final Thought
You’re not too busy.
You’re just making choices.
And if you keep choosing your calendar over your people, don’t act surprised when they choose another leader over you.
You don’t need more hours.
You need better priorities.
